Following the ‘This time it’s personal’ Howwow in November, we asked Chris Hindle, Director and Paraplanner at Frazer James and outsourced Paraplanner to share his thoughts. It was Chris’ first Powwow event, and our first time focussing solely on soft skills, so his insight is doubly interesting. Thanks for sharing Chris 🙂
Do paraplanners need soft skills?
That was the question I was asking myself after a colleague suggested I attend an all-day course to develop my soft skills.
An introvert by nature, I was initially resistant to the idea. Why do I need soft skills training, surely this was the domain of advisers?
The thought of a full day workshop on soft skills development made me slightly uncomfortable, which in itself told me that it was probably a good idea to attend!
So I signed up.
My first ‘Powwow’
Having not previously attended a ‘Powwow’, I wasn’t quite sure what to expect. Would it be leading from the front like most workshops, or would it be something different entirely?
The first thing I noticed is the sense of community. This was an event organised by paraplanners, for paraplanners. We were coming together to learn, fix and share in a non-judgemental way.
A loose agenda kept the day together, but the event was largely driven by the needs of the attendees. We were treated as participants, not delegates.
Why paraplanners need soft skills
Despite initially being resistant to the idea, I came around to believing that soft skills are as much the domain of paraplanners as they are of any other role.
Whilst the role of ‘paraplanner’ differs widely between firms, one commonality is that in all firms paraplanners interact with other people. This holds true for both in-house and outsourced paraplanners.
Being able to communicate with clarity and confidence, is the key to developing and maintaining successful relationships.
The feedback from advisers confirmed this:
What I learnt
Although there was lots to takeaway, there are three things that really stuck with me:
- Giving effective feedback.
I’ve been guilty of being very direct with my feedback. For some people this can work well, but it’s not for everyone. It can damage relationships and make people feel undervalued.
In the future, I will ask the recipient how they like to receive feedback. Everyone has a different style, so if we want to get the most from people, we need to communicate in a way that suits them.
- Listen, don’t speak.
Sometimes, I prepare my response whilst somebody is still speaking. I’m not actively listening to them; I’m just waiting until it’s my turn. It pains me to write this, but it’s true.
In the future, I will work harder on actively listening to the other person. If something comes into my head, I’ll write it down. This keeps my head clear so that I can focus on what they are saying.
- Enjoy the silence.
Silence makes me uncomfortable, so I fill it the only way I know how, by filling the space. This was made painfully clear when I listened to recordings of telephone conversations I have had with clients.
In the future, I’m going to give people the space to think. I will keep in mind that they may not have had the time to think through the information I’ve just provided and need the space to do so.
What next?
It’s clear that paraplanning has come a long way in a short space of time. It’s also clear that there is still a long way to go, particularly around soft skills training.
Personally, I’m going to be spending 20% of my continuing professional development on developing my soft skills.
I’ll be doing things like:
- Listening to voice recordings from conversations I have with end clients (as painful as that is)
- Completing a reflective statement and using this as a key part of my developmental review meetings
- Attending more courses like the ‘this time it’s personal’ Howwow
How about you? Do you think soft skills training is important? What will you be doing to improve your soft skills?
A follow up session to our personal development skills day.
Learning objectives
In this session we covered…
- Personal development books and recommendations
- Action plans

On the 12 September 2019, paraplanners gathered in a teepee to learn, fix, share on a host of topics. Given that there was so much information to scribble down, the jolly folk that hosted the campfires and pick n mixes have sent over all their links and resources. So we’ve popped it all down in a handy link pack.
However, before you get click-happy, here’s a few snaps from the day…

Paraplanning tips campfire with Aleks Sasin and Jackie Manning
A number of you asked for a list of the books mentioned in the session and here they are:
- Getting Things Done – David Allen
- Deep Work – Cal Newport
- The One Think – Gary Keller
- Eat That Frog – Brian Tracy
The Mac app mentioned that focuses on the active window only is HazeOver.
Bonds vs Collectives campfire with Neil MacGillivray and Andy Marshall
The lovely folk of James Hay have sent over a copy of Neil’s presentation on Investment Taxation, plus here’s some handy links on capital gains tax,offshore bond guide and offshore single premium bonds.
CRP campfire with Jonny Stubbs, Martin Lines and Tim Coverdale
Here’s Jonny with more on the Withdrawal policy statement.
Who created it?
Although I can’t take all the credit as it was a mish-mash of various examples I’ve found over the years on the t’internet and using the same framework we use for our Investor Policy Statement. If anyone’s interested… No? Oh, just me then… This is apparently the guy who first came up with the idea for a WPS.
What it’s for?
It helps a financial planner to set a pre-agreed framework/mandate with a client for how they plan on withdrawing money from their various assets to meet their income needs after they stop receiving income from employment. It also sets out in advance what action the planner/client will take in the event of planned and unplanned events e.g. when and how should income be adjusted in the event of market volatility, major crash, inflationary pressures, unexpected expenses, poor performance etc. The idea is that it is reviewed each year at the annual review and a new copy signed together with a record of any tweaks or changes made to the document.
Any health warnings?
The example I’ve provided is just that, an example, and anyone using it should make sure it is personalised to their particular firms views, compliance, and client circumstances and objectives etc. It’s also not a fire and forget solution. The power of it comes from revisiting it every year with the client and getting them to re-sign it to confirm their understanding. Kinda like ‘a (financial) plan on a page’.
Useful links
- From the horses mouth
- A great overview of what suitability really means here
- Some great material from Just on all things CRP including practical examples
- Institute and Faculty of Actuaries: ‘Can we help consumers avoid running out of money in retirement?’
- The Yin and Yang of retirement income philosophies
- Good general overview of managing drawdown here
7IM’s Retirement Income Service
This link provides technical insight into why they follow a “bucketing” approach.
Financial Wellbeing ‘Pick n’ Mix’ session with Chris Budd
Need a reminder of the key elements of Chris Budd’stalk on financial wellbeing, then look no further than here.
Investment Research ‘Pick n’ Mix’ session with Nicki Hinton-Jones and Guy Anderson
Nicki Hinton-Jones of XPM Consulting’s slide from the investment research ‘Pick n Mix’. To find out more about Nicki and her work visit her at xpm-consulting.com
The slide lists the four key areas of due diligence research for investment products and services.
Octopus Investments Handouts
Just in case you whizzed past their handouts here’s the adviser gap report and the Octopus IHT intergenerational research report.
Nathan Fry Notes
Powwow regular, Nathan Fry has very kindly sent us a copy of his notes from the day too. Have a read of them here.
Want some more Powwow in your life? Then check out our upcoming events.
For paraplanners who are want to build a basic knowledge of investment bonds and how they work.
Learning objectives
In this session we covered…
- Life assurance vs capital redemption bonds
- Jurisdictions: Isle of Man vs Ireland
- Brexit (arghhh)
- Who needs a bond?
- Tax within the bond
- Tax paid by the bond holder
- Bond withdrawals
- ‘New’ top slicing rules
Protection sits at the heart of many financial plans and we explore the basics.
Learning objectives
In this session we covered…
- Why is it needed
- What are the solutions
- Practical insight into policy set up
- What happens when a claim is made
Paraplanners discussing anything what we’ve got on, what we’re thinking about, what’s worrying us.
Learning objectives
In this session we covered…
- What’s the trickiest case you’ve worked on recently and how did you deal with it?
- How do you manage your workflow?
- What’s the best source for CPD?
- What top trick/tip can you share?
Develop a deeper understanding Centralised Retirement Propositions (CRPs).
Learning objectives
In this session we covered…
- What is a CRP – is it a CIP with a different name?
- Who is it right for?
- Building a process and strategy
- Tools and stress testing
- Reviews
On a sunny Thursday in September, and for the sixth year running (!), paraplanners gathered in a teepee in rolling countryside to learn, share, fix and exchange views. Here’s a few snaps from the day taken by our photographer, Ady Kerry.























By Rachael Hurdman – Business Coach and consultant, Founder of Arch Inspire
Further to the July Howwow on building and managing paraplanner teams, here is a summary of the key themes we discussed, which I thought would be helpful for you all.
The purpose of paraplanning in your business…
- As a Paraplanning Manager it’s crucial that you can articulate to clients and your business the value that paraplanning specifically brings. This will also help team members understand how they contribute to the overall purpose of the team
- As a manger define and share how you can best add value to your team and the wider business – be clear on your core strengths and where/how you can make the difference. This will support team members to understand how they can best work with you. This needs to be two-way so ensure you spend time with team members to explore the value they add and where/how they feel they can make the difference
- Define, document and share the purpose of paraplanning together as a team and share this throughout the business – the outputs should also inform key messaging to clients about the client experience and how paraplanning will specifically touch and benefit clients
The Player/Manager dynamic
- If you have defined and shared how you can best add value as a Paraplanning Manager, this will support you to start to define the balance between managing/leading/client delivery – this will change and evolve over time but accept that it will be difficult to carry on doing everything you did before you became a manager and be open to the change ahead
- Embrace and enjoy that a core part of your role is to develop and coach others to be able to deliver exceptionally well for clients. Many managers and leaders enjoy this aspect more and more as they develop their skills. It also empowers team members when you can show you trust them to deliver and work with clients you once looked after
- Keep your hand in and be prepared to still ‘do the doing’ – whilst the amount of client work you do may reduce, work hard to keep your knowledge fresh so you can practice what you preach and support the team. Be honest if you feel someone else in the team would be better placed to take on a specific piece of work due to their technical knowledge or skill – you can still support them in a mentoring capacity
- Be receptive to feedback as a manger and leader, you can and will learn a huge amount from your team members – people respect those that willingly ask for feedback on their own performance and act on it regardless of the position they hold.
Assert yourself and the team
- Refer and feel free to use the contracting template to support and develop new and existing relationships both within your direct team and across the business
- Get your contracting clear at the outset in-order to control resources and workflow and re-visit the contracts you have in place regularly – remember great contracting is two-way and definitely not a list of demands flowing one way
- Invest time with your team to develop their contracting skills – mentor and coach them in this area and review examples where it has gone well/not so well to build on the skills continually
- Assume your position as both a Paraplanning Manager and a Paraplanner – respect your role and the value you bring in the same way, you value other roles within your business
- As a manager ensure you are clear on the level of autonomy you have to make decisions/enforce changes – work closely with your own manager to ensure that you are backed 100% when you have to push back or make the tricky calls
Communication, Communication, Communication
- Speak regularly with team members and meet whenever possible (if face to face isn’t possible use technology to see each other)!
- Consider a weekly success/learns/concerns session
a) Successes – capture and what what’s gone well and the resulting impacts
b) Learns – ensure all team members are sharing learns to support each other and work as effectively and collaboratively as possible
c) Concerns – ensure there is open dialogue where people feel comfortable to share concerns/issues to get support and help from the team (this doesn’t happen enough in businesses and can result in conflict, tension and stress if things are left unsaid for too long). Encourage and promote a culture where concerns and problems are shared openly
- Never, ever presume anything and distil this message across your team – it’s one of the root causes of poor communication – always ask and never guess
- Pick up the phone more and speak to each other (avoid jumping to e-mail straight away particularly where one phone call could avoid 20 e-mails)
- Avoid lengthy e-mail chains and ask yourself would it be better to speak to the person – if the answer is yes then speak to them and send a follow up e-mail as a record if required
- Keep close to your team – continually ask your team members how they are feeling and thinking about their work load (before/during/after hot spot periods)
- Take care not to always gravitate to the ‘go to people’ – ensure work is shared across the team, to empower others to step up and avoid key man dependency on those that always will step up. Create a culture of one team with shared responsibility.
You can find out more about how Rachael and Arch inspire supports businesses, teams and individuals by visiting www.archinspire.co.uk and connecting with Rachael on Linkedin.
Word experts, Quietroom help us run an hour-long report writing surgery.
Learning Objectives
In this session we covered…
- Writing and communication techniques
- Language usage that resonates with clients
- How to proofread like a boss